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Month: November 2021

Creation of Bucket List

Not that I don’t like to write about sex, porn, or more specifically, Spencer Barrick (aka Damon Dice), I’m going to start another conversation that will fall in line with the previous posts. Ok – maybe not the llama information, but I just had to throw that out there. I am feeling like I might have even more for a llama post in future, so stay tuned.

So, before I get too far distracted, I wanted to come up with a bucket list of sorts. I feel like it might help me actively pursue the goals despite the fact that my blog isn’t getting any hits. I can’t even find it in search engines and I know what I’m looking for. And I digress again, so onto the list in no particular order.

  • Piercings: I have 2 in each ear already, but I’ve wanted a third. And I would like a ring in the upper portion of the left ear. I tend to pull my hair back on that side more, so it will be more visible. Talked to someone else about a hood piercing, but I’m not completely sold on that yet. Not completely against it either.
  • Tattoos: Yep, I am still a tattoo virgin, but I plan on taking care of that in the next couple of months. I’ve picked them out and know where I want them. Just working on getting an artist to do them. I suspect I’ll want more once the bubble is popped.
  • Sassafras Trees: I saw a picture of sassafras trees growing out of the water and I’ve wanted to see that in person. I don’t know why, but I’ve been fascinated by it.bn m
  • Flying: No, I don’t mean high, but learning how to fly an airplane. There have been concerns about finances and health issues, but that is getting worked out. Literally.
  • Healthy: Yep. It’s on the list because I am ready to get serious about it. Not in the sense that I don’t like the way I look, but more in the way I feel. It has been limiting what I can do in my life and that isn’t acceptable anymore.
  • Run a 5K: I need to get healthy and in shape to do this. I’ve already started working on it. I am focused and determined. I have my friends and family supporting me, even to the point of not tempting me on my birthday and starting an exercise routine with me.
  • Egypt: Wanna go and see the pyramids and museums. I’ve watched thousands of hours of documentaries and I’m ready to see it in person.
  • Norway: Uhmm.. Tall, beautiful men talking in foreign accents.. And I bet the country fjords are gorgeous as well.
  • Catch a Tuna and\or Marlin: I’ve had the pleasure of catching a mahi mahi in Hawaii, but I would love to catch something bigger. From the experience of catching the smaller fish, although quite a fighter, I know I need to work on my muscles to bring in a bigger one.

That seems like a good start. Some of them are very attainable and some are going to take some work. I am ready for it and started on some of them already.

I’ll add to them as other things come to mind.

Pre-Porn Research? Porn Star Obsession Update on Damon Dice

Before I delved into porn (human) too much more, I found myself looking up videos on animal mating. I don’t have a good answer on why except maybe curiosity. I don’t have a fantasy of sex with an animal, but was just curious. Really!

There are some animals I just won’t ever see the same. One species made more of an impression than the rest: llamas. Others were definitely memorable, but not in the same way. If the opportunity comes up with a goat, you might just want to say no.

Firstly, the female chooses when and who they want. If the male is unacceptable or they are already pregnant, the female llama will spit at the male. Yep, spit at him. Wouldn’t it be nice if female humans could do the same thing? Not interested, just spit at him. Would make things so much easier in the dating game, right? Fewer mixed signals.

The male gets their attention by running around making this sound called ‘orgling’. I don’t even know how to describe it. You’ll just need to watch the video below.

So, if everyone is good with each other, the mating position is called ‘in kush’ which looks very sweet, like cuddling. Copulation can last 45 minutes. Yep, 45 minutes! Then everyone goes their own way with the male looking for another opportunity.

This video includes the mating position and orgling. I am thinking he is just excited and keeps checking to make sure she is still there. Or he feels so lucky that he just doesn’t know where to start. What do you think?

If you want to know about other interesting animal behaviors, you can check out silverback gorillas. I don’t know about you, but they just made me laugh. Just straight to business and get the job done.

So – let’s move to human porn.

So, as I mentioned, I have formed a fascination with Damon Dice which is the performance name for Spencer Barrick. As I have done my internet digging on him, I fear I have become even more obsessed/consumed with him than Damon.

Don’t worry, I still appreciate you, big D.

Spencer appeals to my romantic and intellectual side, but Damon appeals to, well, a more physical side of me. And boy does he appeal….

So, as I was trying to say before I distracted myself, is that Spencer has so much going him. Once again, this is based on internet research including articles and interviews. I’ve not had the opportunity (yet) to meet him. He has started businesses, represented the adult entertainment industry to encourage change, removes some of the fantastic illusions (read unrealistic expectations) of porn, and lots of other things.

He comes across as very positive which is so very sexy. One of the companies that he helped start, P.S. (https://www.psgoodtimes.com), sells condoms. It’s a good fit (pun intended) since he is very knowledgeable about, well, sex. There are some links to articles that were written about better relationships, confidence, and, of course, better sex. I don’t know for sure that he wrote them, but the style is similar to how he talks and phrases he uses elsewhere (“the eyes are windows to the soul”). So, Spencer, if you are reading this, the sites about confidence are the best. They were kind of inspirational for me and helped me see some things I want to change in my life. More on that later.

Just so we don’t forget about Damon, I leave you with the link of my favorite video on the Bellesa site. Well, so far. This one will be hard (yep, another pun) to beat (sorry-couldn’t help it).

Fucking Me Slowly | Bellesa – Porn for Women

First Post – Do I really want to do this? Yeah, I think so.

The last couple of years have been strange. For everyone, I suspect. I have found myself exploring things that surprise me and I’m just not sure where to talk about it. So naturally, I thought I would start my own blog. Maybe find some like minded folks out in the wide world of the internet. Hopefully?

I’ve always been an avid reader and enjoy all types of genres especially fantasy. You know, elves, magic, heroes, villians, etc. My reading took off when I discovered Kindle Unlimited with our Amazon Prime subscription. I always swore I wouldn’t be one of those people that no longer bought books and only read on electronic devices. Yep, be careful what you say cause life is tricky that way. There were so many books to choose from and I didn’t have to leave my living room. Not a good excuse, I know, but there you are. Maybe I could blame some of it on COVID?

Ok – another reason is that no one really sees the kind of books you are reading either. That is probably the main reason since I moved from fantasy to reverse harem to enemies-to-friends. I discovered alpha and omega books, as well as the omegaverse genre. Most of the books I was reading weren’t ones that I would necessarily want others to know about. The covers alone would have raised eyebrows.

It was literally a whole new world that opened up for me. I don’t consider myself a prude, but I definitely hadn’t experienced very much in my life. And I wanted to. Yes, I am talking about sex.

Sex with multiple partners…

Sex as a submissive getting spankings…

Sex as a dominant giving spankings…

Sex in a variety of positions…

And there is where things took a different turn. Due to my limited experience, I was having a hard time visualizing the descriptions from the books which wasn’t because of the author. I just couldn’t imagine it. Could things really fit that way?

So, I decided I needed to do some research. And I found, yes you guessed it, porn. I knew it was out there, but didn’t have a reason to watch. Or so I thought. Ok – there is some (maybe a lot of?) stuff I don’t need to see again. And it was definitely more geared towards men than women. It filled in the images of some of the positions, but there was a distinctive lack of romance that was in the books.

Then I managed to enter the right search criteria and found a video that was a little less “standard” and more chemistry between the performers. Yes, there was still the obligatory cum shot on the face, but the rest of it was more sensual. And a porn star crush was born…

After a little internet sleuthing (aka looking up the actress on the website that produced the video and then looking at the credits for that particular video), I found the male performer was named Damon Dice. And the search was on to find out more about him…

If you are curious about his work, I would suggest the videos that were produced by Bellesa (bellesa.co). He has quite a bit on Youtube, but I prefer the story format instead of some of the other stuff available even though he is pretty hot in all of it.

I feel like I have my obsession mostly under control, but that hasn’t prevented me from watching more videos and learning more about him outside of his adult career. I’ll use that as a starter for my next blog.

Thanks for reading!

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